borderline personality disorder and the paradoxical relationship

People with a severe form of borderline personality disorder or borderline, are extremely sensitive to any perceived or hint of rejection.

They have no intuition when it comes to relationships and are unable to calm the stress. Then in anger when they believe, often wrongly, that someone has done wrong.

Unfortunately, the person with severe borderline personality disorder so convinced that in addition to damage or leave, are obliged to havebehave in a way that, paradoxically, are provocative and alienation.

In their efforts to manage what you imagine or to prevent the abuse of his betrayal, without realizing exactly the situations they fear most.

Otherwise, nice people and very balanced, in the presence of a reasonable person, frustrated, irrational and provocative towards the BDP. You may find a way of acting, which are very nice.

The personsevere borderline personality disorder is a supernatural gift to bring out the worst in the interaction. This only reinforces the belief that most people injured or disappoint.

Interested severe BPD have a strong desire to return to those who have been attacked, rejection or shame them. Ironically, the victim is doing real damage to the limit in its efforts to punish the criminals called.

Stark affected people are very skilled TLPdamage to those who think they have bad. The other party of anger, perhaps unwittingly play into their hands to answer criticism or rejection, but are often innocent of evil.

In any case, the unfortunate emphasis on the edge of anger in a very unpleasant surprise. Nothing could be done in your life deserve the degree of virulence and persistence of the attacks. The individual is so borderlinefilled with a sense of indignation that distorted their case without limits.

It 's a sad irony that, to protect against someone who suffers from severe borderline personality disorder is often necessary to play right into their hands. Unfortunately, this shows respect for Getting Away With keep your fault.

A person with severe borderline personality disorder is so relentless in their pursuit of "justice" against those whooffended that their victims are often exhausted in their efforts to self-defense. The victim TLP is easy to configure and lawyers accuse the other person the most serious crimes.

Usually people are not prepared to stomach this type of conflict and is often at the individual level is borderline unfair and unreasonable to give in to demands. You want to end the nightmare has just disappeared and that the person angry, irrational.

A normal person outside of the persistent hostility, asUsually try to calm the individual BPD, because he sees no end to the bitterness otherwise. Unfortunately, the victim TLP to add this "triumph" of its growing list of "bad" that is "good."

More placate them, the more severe BPD person is convinced they were right in the first place. However, our choices are not great. If we are with them, we commit ourselves exhausted, and even if we win, the cost was too great in terms ofwaste of time, money and energy.

The victim TLP seems always to have in the world to devote their revenge, that the average person, much to your life pleasant and relaxing as possible.

Until our society is able to recognize, protect us from people with severe personality disorders and the courts, without malicious prosecution, it seems, is against a rapid withdrawal, often safer our best strategy.

(C) Marcia D. Sirota,2010